Can Adult Toys Save an Unhappy Marriage?

Sex toys are beneficial for any couple, married or not. However, there are so many stories about married couples experiencing a dull sex life, sex toys are an effective way of fixing a lack of friskiness. If your marriage has spiralled into a dull sex life, or you don't want it to, read below!

A prolonged unsatisfied sex life can be the reason some partners cheat. When sex becomes routine, tedious or rare, it's understandable that it's hard to keep the passion alive. So, why can introducing a sex toy be the reignition for passion within a marriage?

1. It might be the first time any variation has entered the bedroom in a long time. A sex toy introduces new forms, potentially more intense forms of pleasure into a marriage. One issue many partners raise is that they simply don't have the energy. The responsibilities of the day, especially if you have children, your libido has vanished with your lack of energy. There is absolutely understandable, being low on energy is not the fault of either partner, it just means you may have to schedule time for intimate moments. However, sex toys can actually make sex effortless. Take the We-Vibe Sync for example, made to accompany penetration and add additional clitoral or g-spot stimulation. If reaching a shared orgasm is the goal, then this is only going to decrease the amount of time it takes to reach a pleasurable crescendo. Note! Sex toys should not replace a lack of effort during foreplay.

Naturally, married couples will have less energy and may not have the time to have as much sex or intimate moments as they'd like. Being open to each other having an adult toy for individual use is an effective way partners can remain satisfied. Masturbation is the best way for someone to understand their body more and the motions they like best! Those who use sex toys for self-pleasure finds that their shared pleasure becomes more pleasurable as well! The other way great sex has benefits outside of the bedroom is by increasing the amount you touch each other. A greater level of openness during your daily activities, touching each other increases feelings of happiness. Happy sex lives, happy partners and if you have kids, happy parents!

2. When was the last time you truly listened to your partner or discussed something new? Unfortunately, after spending so much time with someone, we begin to only half listen to them. Sex toys require discussion around comfortability, consent, pleasurable use and body safety. They require partners to make a conscious decision to focus solely on each other and value what the other has to say. Therefore, we can understand that the benefits of sex toys aren't just about better sex! It's about reconnecting communication, intimacy and trust.

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One reason many long-term relationships slowly become unhappy is due to their desires never being explored. If they never express them during the start of their relationship, the suppress their own desires and fall into a sex life that isn't tailored toward their preferences. This problem is even present with couples who predominantly have and prefer vanilla sex. However, one or both partners fear that their desires might have a negative response. Therefore, it's important to understand your desire, how it can be satisfied and how this might be interpreted by your partner. The more you know about your desire, the more comfortable your partner will feel when you discuss it. Summon the courage to talk about your fantasy, not only will it begin to create discussion around adhering to your desires, it may even be the nudge your partner has been waiting for. Just the fact of your partner is understanding and accepting of your fantasies can increase trust and intimacy between each other

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