Are you interested in experimenting with anal play and anal toys but you're unsure where to start? Ponder no longer with Adulttoymegastore's beginners' guide to female anal play!
Girls, it's time to get rid of the stigma associated with female anal play and jump on board!
Anal play can be highly erotic for females and even lead to more intense orgasms. This is because the only thing separating your rectal cavity to your vaginal cavity is a thin membrane so there is no surprise that this area is an erogenous zone for females!
At first it may be a complete alien feeling that you are not use to, but with a little perseverance you will get use to the sensation and be completely on board. Before jumping completely on board and doing anal with a partner, we recommend experiencing with toys first.
It is important to always bear three things in mind though when first dealing with anal toys:
Communicate: with communication, follow the language of the body or if you are doing it with someone else make sure they know exactly how you are feeling.
Lubricate: with lubricant, it's very important you use it. A lot of it.
Relax: it's important to be totally relaxed otherwise it can feel unpleasant and painful.
Here is a range of anal toys suited for you girls who are just beginning to explore this pleasure zone...
Typically, anal beads are small, smooth, round spheres made from either silicone or plastic. They consist of a series of connected balls in graduating sizes that are designed to be inserted into the anus. Some anal beads are soft, whereas other are more firm or textured.
When using anal beads, you want to insert each bead gently one at a time into the anus using plenty of lubricant. The insertion of the anal beads does not necessarily provide much pleasure, but for women anal beads are a considered a culminating intensifier as they can prolong the pleasure of an orgasm. At the moment of an orgasm, removing the anal beads massages the sphincter muscle as they pass through out of the anus ultimately heightening sensation.
Anal beads are great for beginners as there are a range of different sizes available and you also have the choice of how many you insert at one given time.
Butt plugs are designed for comfortable anal play. Their tapered head widens out typically into a bulb shape, and then tapers at least once more before reaching a wide base. The initial tapered design helps for insertion, while the thin neck keeps the butt plug in place so that it cannot slip into your body.
Butt plugs are great for two reasons, the first being that it creates more pressure on the back of the vaginal wall, increasing the level of sensation that you will experience. During an orgasm it can also intensify the sensation due to the wall between the vagina and rectum being very thin. Your partner will also be able to receive extra stimulation, due to the fullness, or especially if it is a vibrating butt plug as they will be able to enjoy the vibrations too.
The second reason for butt plugs being so great is that they are a great way for relaxing and stretching the muscles of the anus to prepare your body for anal sex. We recommend for you to start with a narrower plug, and it should be smooth with no ridges or bumps.
Not all vibrators have been designed with anal use in mind, and if you use a normal vibe for anal stimulation or penetration it could cause discomfort or even get stuck!
Anal vibrators are specifically designed to give you incredibly enhanced orgasms. As well as the classic toys mentioned above there are also vibrating options available for anal play. The aim of vibrating butt plugs, anal beads and bullets is to produce vibrating effects inside of, or around, the anus for pleasurable sensations.
They can also be a good form of foreplay before anal sex as they relax your outer sphincter muscles, making penetration much easier. These toys can provide various stimulating effects such as rotating, vibrating or pulsing and may have speed and vibration levels to cater to different preferences.
One of the main benefits to glass as a material for anal play is the nature of glass itself. Glass is naturally smooth, so it requires less lubrication to get all slippery and slidey, so when penetrating the toy it goes into the tight anus that much easier. Another benefit of glass is that it is nonporous, so bacteria cannot get below the surface and live and grow.
Another excellent feature of glass anal toys is their ability to hold different temperatures. Before inserting a glass toy, try soaking it in warm to hot water as this might help relax you and help expand the anus. Due to having naturally low friction, glass toys are great for beginners!
When it comes to anal play for beginners, majority of females are consumed with the fear of encountering difficulty or discomfort and this is why lubricant is extremely important, and even mandatory!
There is a huge variety of lubricants available out there but for first time users we recommend to use a lube especially designed for anal with a slight numbing effect. It reduces friction and helps keep things comfortable.
If you don't like the idea of feeling numb then simply go for a standard anal lubricant. Silicone lubricants are also good due to being long lasting while remaining slick with that silky feeling.
Before you begin here are a few extra tips and tricks to guide you through your first time!
Start small and slowly make your way up to bigger sizes after experimenting a few times. Don't jump straight into using bigger toys as you can cause damage and discomfort. It's also important that the toy is smooth and designed with features such as a tapered tip for easy insertion and removal.
I am hoping by now you have caught on that lubricant is a must, but remember if you do go for a silicone based lubricant it is not compatible with silicone toys. In this case you may want to opt for either an anal or water-based lubricant.
The anus contains a fair bit of bacteria so make sure you always clean toys thoroughly after use. It is also important to never go from using a toy in the anus to the vagina as this is how infections can begin.
What are you waiting for? Pick your new anal toy and some lubricant from our vast selection and get experimenting with the pleasures of anal play!
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