For many woman breasts are an area of great pleasure, however often they are left out in the cold, while our hot spots down below are being satisfied.
So here is our guide to ensure her boobs are being pleasured in the bedroom.
You only have to look around to know that each set of bouncing beauties are completely different - and not only are they different in size and shape, the things that turn them on can be very different too. What has worked for one set, may not work for the next set!
Start by admiring them...understand them, there is nothing more sensual than being looked at and admired. Gently trace your fingers over the outer edges, run your thumb lightly under the space where they fall and use only your fingertips to caress her as you lightly breathe warm air over her nipples...
It is anticipation that we all love, that feeling that you want more, quicker, faster.....Kiss her entire breast, but ignore her nipples for a few minutes. Breathe over them provocatively, but don't make any physical contact until her body is writhing with desire. It may take some self-restraint on your part, but the build-up will be worth it when they tingle as she orgasms.
By passing the power onto her, she gets to be the teacher. Assist her by saying things like 'Touch yourself and show me what you like.' Place her own hands on her breasts as she rides you so she can show you just how she likes to be touched. Or give her some warming lubricant or massage oil and let her stimulate herself while you take her from behind doing doggie-style. The more you encourage her and more she will enjoy it.
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Start with a Nipple Gel - they cool & stimulate the nipple area and keep them pert with excitement or progress to some Nipple clamps - that slight amount of pressure can be very pleasurable. If she starts enjoying this type of play, ensure you keep pushing the boundaries - surprise her.
Adding a little roughness in your play is very sexy.
Or a combination of hot and cold touches can be just as arousing as clamps. Use ice cubes-it's almost painful, and that can be super hot for a lot of women.
Blindfold her, cuff her wrists to the bedhead and allow yourself to be in full control. Talk to her, tell her that your focus for the next 20 mins will only be her breasts (that statement alone will see her moan) then just talk.
Tell her how beautiful her breasts are, how you are dying to touch them, caress them. Once she is starting to beg for your touch, use a silk scarf and circle it around each breast, just softly allowing only the faintest touch. Allow your face, cheeks and breath to penetrate her skin without actually touching her. Then introduce your hands and lips - remember that teasing is the key - you have 20mins of un-interuppted pleasure to fulfill...use it wisely.
Introduce other sensations (remember she is blindfolded - excluding her vision will make her extra sensitive). Try ice cubes over her nipples, a feather tickler, allow droplets of water to fall onto her breasts, or even try hot wax.
Just remember that compliments are the most powerful aphrodisiacs and feeling comfortable in her own skin will elevate her mood, libido and sexual response.