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Why does my husband want me to insert things into his anus?

By Emily 4 years ago. Posted in Sex Tips
Why does my husband want me to insert things into his anus?

We often answer questions from customers here - and our latest is one that is surprisingly common.

Why does my husband want me to insert things into his anus?

Put simply - because it feels really good! You should never do anything in the bedroom that you're not comfortable with, but if you'd like to find out why your partner is keen to do anal play, you've come to the right place.

An introduction to anal play

First, The P-spot. Never heard of it? Let me tell you all about it. The p-spot is an erogenous zone that is located between the bladder and the rectum in men. Like the g-spot in women, the p-spot is full of nerve endings that are ready to be stimulated! Generally about two knuckles into your anus is the p-spot. It feels similar to the G-spot on a woman. Soft, a bit squishy. It's about the size of a 5c piece.

Use your finger to find it. The point of using a finger is to familiarise yourself with what feels good so that once practicing with an anal toy, you can incorporate similar movements. Basically what you want to do is provide pressure to different parts of your prostate gland to see what feels comfortable. If you suddenly feel encouraged to urinate, or feel sensations that feel similar to the beginning of an orgasm, you’re touching your prostate. Don't worry that feeling is completely normal.

You can achieve orgasm through stimulating the prostate with your fingers, a penis, or sex toys. But it's a totally different orgasm. P-spot orgasms allows you to reach orgasm without touching your penis.

So no wonder your husband wants to give it a go!

Why toys are fun

Backdoor toys can bring us to the most pleasurable and orgasmic moments within our sex lives. It's not only incredibly satisfying but also has plenty of health benefits. Prostate massage can reduce the chance of prostate cancer, prostatitis, genital pain and erectile dysfunction. Further, it can enhance erectile function, and betters seminal fluid circulation.

P-spot anal toys differ by the design, material and their accompanying features. If you're keen to give it a go - here are some toys you could try.

If you've never tried anal play, the Beginner's Fantasy Kit is just what you need to explore the amazing world of anal stimulation.

The Beginner's Fantasy Kit features five unique pieces perfect for your first-time anal encounter. Try the beaded probe for gradual anal stimulation, the Classix Prostate Stimulator to hit just the right spot, or the suction-cup plug for a wall banging good time!

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Try a plug on its own if you don't want to do the inserting. There are plenty of plugs to choose from and once they're in, they stay in! The Classix Prostate Stimulator is cleverly curved for P-Spot stimulation, while the rounded nub at the base provides external pressure to the perineum. It's a wonderful combo your husband will love (and you can try it too!) The Snug Plug 2 is an ultra-comfortable, 114-gram weighted butt plug that is designed to provide a sensual feeling of fullness. You can wear it during sex or enjoy discreetly for extended wear.Snug Plugs are made of body-safe, seamless silicone and feature a think, flexible neck and smooth grip handle.

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Your husband could wear a plug that doubles as a cockring to hold it in. There are a lot of options here too. The Ass-Gasm Cockring Plug is a great toy. It is made entirely from silky-smooth Elite Silicone, and it doubles as a performance-enhancing cockring, allowing the wearer to prolong ejaculation and extend the fun while enjoying incredible prostate stimulation. There's also a vibrating version!

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Important things to remember

Only ever participate in anal play with someone you have complete trust in. The more trust you have in someone, the more comfortable you feel communicating with each other. Insertion needs to be taken slowly. If anything becomes too uncomfortable, then communicate that things should be stopped and perhaps readjusted. Always give time for your body to relax before, during and after anal sex.

Consider that many anal toys have vibration settings. Discovering the best way to play with vibration settings is something both partners need to know. Generally starting at a lower setting and working your way up is recommended!

Lubricant is essential to anal play. For beginners, be generous with anal lubricant, more is always better. Use lubricant to make insertion more comfortable, however some lubricant may dry up during use. Water-based lubricant is usually the quickest to dry up, simply re-apply it if necessary. Silicone lubricant will last longer.

If thinking about purchasing any anal toys, there's no need to worry about your privacy being breached. All orders are shipped in discreet plain packaging to ensure confidentiality. If you have any queries, checkout our delivery information page or feel free to contact customer service!

Be safe out there!

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Emily
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