Did you know that sex toys have been around for thousands of years? That's right! There have been reports of phallic stone objects dating back 28,000 years ago, and while there's no guarantee that the objects were used as sex toys, it's hard to tell what else they could be used for. Whatever they were, we like to believe they were dildos, anyway.
Then there's the fact that doctors in the 19th-century did not believe women experienced any sexual pleasure, but still used 'vibrators' to cure hysteria (which we now know was actually just sexual frustration). It wasn't until the sexual revolution in the 1960s that people actually started using sex toys for pleasure, and since then, they have talked about and accepted more and more. It wasn't until this time that women could even talk about and enjoy sex!
Although they have really only become mainstream in the last decade or so, people have been enjoying various objects for sexual pleasure all throughout history! But despite all of the positivity and acceptance surrounding toys like vibrators and dildos, it might not be a conversation that you've had with friends before, and the topic might still make you squirm in your seat a little. For some people, what happens behind closed doors should stay there - whatever your opinion, the important thing is that we are all enjoying a bit of self love!
There should be no shame in putting your sexual pleasure and satisfaction first! Whether you're in a relationship or flying solo, it's totally okay to enjoy some pleasure, whether with a partner or by yourself.
Many studies have shown that having regular orgasms can dramatically improve your mood and help ease stress, as the hormone oxytocin is released into the bloodstream. Oxytocin stimulates feelings of relaxation and calmness - need I say more?! Orgasms can also help with insomnia, and there's a few studies that have shown that experiencing the Big O can relieve all kinds of pain.
Plus, if you're in a relationship of any variety, using sex toys together has been proven to help improve communication, happiness and overall satisfaction, mean you and your loved one/s will be living your best life!
Many people can find it hard to get over the internal complex of seeing sex toys as 'bad'. That's okay! It's totally normal to be apprehensive towards embracing your sexuality and pleasure, because many people have been told its taboo over the years. Start out slow and work your way up - you don't need to jump head first into the deep end! Try incorporating something small like a bullet vibrator or cock ring into the equation.
You might be thinking to yourself, why do I even need a sex toy? My sex life is already pretty good! And that's great! But sex toys can help improve your sex life in ways you might not have thought of...
Many vulva owners require dual stimulation to orgasm, which is where rabbit vibrators come in handy! These toys help stimulate the G-spot and clitoris at the same time, meaning you'll get some pretty intense vibrations that will feel pretty damn good. This is perfect for all the singles out there!
Some penis owners might struggle to keep an erection hard or strong for an extended period of time, or might finish earlier than they'd like to. Cock rings can be the perfect way to help with this! A cock ring simply slips over the penis and sits at the base, helping to restrict blood flow and ensure you last longer. Plus, it feels pretty good and helps increase pleasure during orgasm for both partners!
While it's not technically a sex toy, lubricant is super important for a range of reasons! It helps keep everything slippery and smooth, perfect to prevent any discomfort or tearing. Many people don't provide enough natural lubrication, and despite popular belief, this is natural at any age! Even if you have plenty of natural lubrication, lube can definitely increase sensation during masturbation and sex - it feels pretty good!
If you're ready to help break the stereotype around sex and sexual pleasure, then the best thing you can do is to try to normalise the topic around friends and family. Don't be ashamed to talk openly about sex and sexuality - you don't have to share the ins and outs of your sex life, but don't shy away from or look down on the idea. We all deserve a bit of pleasure in our lives!
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